The most important question you can ask yourself is: what do I really want from life? It makes sense. Men and women must find what is that they really want. Life is a long ride but it is also short when you have many goals to achieve.
It may be a tough question, so I’ll go ahead and answer it for you. What is that I want from life? Well, the answer is simple: I just want to be happy. And I believe that that is the answer everyone should give. Live a happy life and that’s a life worth living.
It’s as simple as that, but many people are blind to the fact that being happy is what really matters. Think deep into yourself whether you are happy or not and be prepared to do something about it.
The tricky part comes when discovering what is that makes YOU especially happy. We are not all equal and as such, we want different things in life. We have different goals and different objectives. What makes me happy won’t necessarily make you, and vice versa. It has to be your ultimate goal to find out what is what you want.
Focus on what makes you happy now and also in the long term. Find the right balance. Be willing to work your soul for it and to achieve what you want in life. Many years into the future you have to look back in time and say to yourself “I lived the life I wanted to – And I had a hell out of fun.”
It’s as simple as that. Yet, most of the world doesn’t live the life they would want to. People have jobs they don’t like, unhappy relationships and, in the end, a mediocre life. They go through life lose the precious given to them – a time that, in the end, never comes back.
This is really sad. And the best way to start getting over it is to think, with absolute honesty, if you are happy with your life or not. Many people don’t want to acknowledge that they are not living the life they would really want to. That is, in the end, that mediocrity I’m speaking about. All those people who settle for less than what they really want to are mediocre.
What is the solution, then? Just do what makes you happy! Simple to say, had to achieve, but at least you know what is what you want. You know what lies at the end of the road. If you are willing to do everything in your reach to win that prize, you are off to a great start.
It is not easy, it’s not meant to be. Men wish that they could, from one moment to the other, give up the jobs they don’t like, start a relationship with that person they want and so on. I wouldn’t give you any news telling you it’s hard to do that. Big goals demand an equal amount of sacrifice, and you have to be ready to give it.
Then, the tools and steps to success are all but said, especially now in the XXI century. It all goes around just one thing: you have to create and build value for the rest of the world. Build value doing what you love and focusing on what people want.
It is not easy, but there are countless of books, seminars and blogs around that teach you all the steps you have to take. Then it’s up to you to see whether you are willing to follow the path you, in your deep self, want to.
Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.
The most important thing about all of this is to have your life and goals clear and to know where you want to go. Find what makes you happy, what you want and, from this day on work your soul to achieve those goals.