How to Get Past Girls’ Anti Slut Defense

The world “slut” is very powerful. It’s a word that women use against other women. If a girl sleeps with someone too soon, others will say she’s a slut. If she sleeps with too many men, others will say she’s a slut. And girls don’t want others to think they are sluts. They don’t want to feel like sluts. How to Get Past Girls’ Anti Slut Defense

You need to have this clear. Even if a girl is dying to kiss or sleep with you, she might abstain or make you wait just not to feel like a slut.

So you must never make her feel that way. Avoid this by going slow (don’t rush please!) and by taking the lead. If things escalate slowly and you take full responsibility of what’s going on, you’ll be fine.

Just think about it. When you directly invite your date to your place to have sex, even if she wants to say yes, she’ll have to say no. Saying yes would make responsible for what’s going on – and you can’t let that happen.

If you instead invited her over to see your photos, drink from your exotic cocktails or for whatever you come up with, she now has an excuse to go. Bring up the excuse, have sex and then all she will have to say is “one thing led to another…”

This behavior is also one of the causes for girls to keep saying “no”. If they comply with all you say too fast, they will also feel like a slut. So they say “no” hoping you’ll insist. Make sure you don’t push this one too far though – don’t beg, be pushy, needy or creepy. But never give up too easily.

A Geographical Question

You’ll notice that the more advanced the country is, the less this will apply. The concept of slut is diluted in places like Northern Europe, where the society doesn’t believe it’s wrong for girls to sleep with as many men as they want. Men and women, after all, are equal – they believe that if a man is praised for all the women he gets, why not them too?

This obviously doesn’t apply to countries as my native Argentina or many places in the United States and around the world. Some societies are still very conservative in this aspect and a long way of countries like Sweden or Finland.