How To Get Girls To Like You

The problem with this question is how it’s framed. Asking how to get girls to like you is like trying to find a magic secret that all of sudden changes how girls see you. It doesn’t work like that.How To Get Girls To Like You

A better question is “How Do I Build Attraction.” Attraction is that hard-to-describe force which causes a girl to think of you in a sexual or intimate way. There are a lot of different things that builds attraction but let’s discuss a few important ones.

1. Being an alpha male. An alpha male is the type of male that lives much differently from his beta male counterpart, who is scared of girls and passive in chasing them. An alpha male does not concern himself with other people’s opinions of him and does not explain away his faults to others. He goes after what he wants without apology and doesn’t care one way or the other if he gets rejected or not. Being an alpha male is not so much a personality type but a way of life. It’s something you must emulate in the alpha’s you meet in everyday life.

2. Being interesting. One reliable way to built attraction is to be interesting. The only thing is you can’t be interesting unless you are interesting. If you’re doing nothing besides playing video games all then how are you going to have interesting topics to talk discuss when it comes time to talk to a girl you like? The way to be interesting is to do things like read interesting books, explore interesting hobbies, and visit interesting places. There is no shortcut around this.

3. Make her laugh. If you make a girl laugh then you are already halfway there. The effect of making a girl laugh is much different than making a guy laugh. It’s very rare that you will be more attracted to a girl just because she told you a funny joke, but a girl’s brain is constructed differently to where humor will build attraction. What this means to you is you must get rid of your dour and depressed demeanor and take on something that is fun and positive. If you don’t have a sense of humor that it’s time to learn.

Flirting and building attraction is crucial when it comes to helping the girl decide that she wants to sleep with you. Before I knew how attraction really worked, I’d approach a girl and talk about boring topics such as work or her favorite movies, and then she would politely excuse herself from the conversation only a couple minutes into it. But now I know better. When you talk about more interesting topics, she sees you as more interesting. It’s as simple as that. With a couple additional techniques, the “interesting” is turned into strong attraction.

Once attraction is built you can get her number and take her on a date or go for the one night stand (my preferred method). I teach you how to do all this in my book Bang, which details my complete banging system with step-by-step strategies such as The Four Key Moves To Intimacy (for when you want to kiss her) and my bedroom technique for sealing the deal. And of course my book tells you how to keep a fun conversation going, whether you just met her or are on a date.