I’ve always been a bit of a technophobe. In fact, I fear change in general, being a “stuck in my own ways” type stubborn guy.
This is one of the reasons I was very slow to adopt Facebook. But now that I have, I am EXTREMELY glad that I did.
Because Facebook is one of the GREATEST tools any guy hoping to improve his success with women could ever hope to have.
Seriously. Not only can it help you meet lots of new, attractive women. It can also help you create massive social proof and get girls to want to date you!
So here’s my method of using Facebook to flirt with women…
1. Setting Up Social Proof
If you know how to do it right, Facebook can be the ULTIMATE in social proof. Everyone’s profile is a look into their life, so if you can pad out your profile, it can really give you a boost.
Pictures go a long way on Facebook, so have lots of pictures of yourself having fun with lots of different women. You’ll also want to have pics of you traveling or doing other fun things.
Because girls who are interested in you will always stalk your photo albums! So you’ll want to make sure they see you “living an exciting life” so they will want to be part of it!
Another thing you’ll want to do is fill your Wall with fun, flirty comments. Encourage your friends to post on your wall and comment on your posts.
An active, and positive, Facebook profile can show others you’re a popular guy.
2. Add Lots Of Attractive Women To Your Friends.
Facebook doesn’t let you communicate with people who aren’t your friends, so you need to add as many as possible if you want a chance at meeting them.
But mass adding friends is counter-productive. You need to be smart about it. I like to add women I meet offline to my Facebook profile just to keep in touch and build rapport.
Getting a woman’s Facebook email is much easier than getting her phone number often times, and lots of girls spend a ridiculous amount of time on Facebook, so it can be easy to keep in touch with them.
You’ll also want to go through the friends of the girls you add to your profile and try and friend them too. Just send an email with your friend request that says something like “Hey, I see you’re
friends with XXXXX. You must be cool! She’s awesome.”
And if you’re really ambitious, you can join numerous groups on Facebook that are all about adding friends to your profile. You can meet lots of hot girls on Facebook through these groups. (Just beware of
fake girl profiles from scammers!)
3. Organize Your Women
Facebook allows you to create lists of Friends. I always put every girl who friends me in a list called “Girls.” This way, I can quickly look at all their status updates and see what’s going on with them.
Then, I’ll comment on their posts. This is a great way to flirt, build rapport, and keep in touch.
4. Poke, Poke, Poke
Poking is a fun little feature on Facebook that can really start some fun, flirty exchanges. If there’s a girl you want to hear from, use the “poke” feature on her.
When she pokes you back, send her a flirty email in response. Something like:
“Did you just poke my ass? How forward of you! lol. Now I feel violated!”
You can get some really fun exchanges going off a simple poke.
5. Organize Events and Invites
Because you can have so many girls following you on Facebook, this makes it easy for you to invite them out with you or to parties/events you’re throwing or attending.
You can create an event invitation and send it to all your “girl” friends. You can put out a status update telling everyone what club you’re going to.
Heck, you can even send out an update asking what people are up to tonight, and then contact them about hanging out once they respond.
Setting up dates on Facebook using this method is so easy, its almost criminal!
I could probably go on for hours about how I like to use Facebook to get women, but I think for now, these five tips should get you started.