Sometimes work, study or some other matters consume most of your day, leaving you little time to meet new girls and go out on dates.
But there’s an easy solution: start to meet women where you would normally go during the day. I hardly go to clubs or bars to meet girls now – I meet girls all through my day and at every place I go to. You should give this style a try to.
These places are the places I recommend you to start:
1- Local Gym Class.
You have to go to the gym. Stay healthy, strong, and in shape – girls will love it, and so will you once you get the body you deserve. If you don’t go to the gym, start now. No matter how busy you are, remember: take care of your body. It’s the only place you have to live.
And gyms can be fun. You can meet dozens of beautiful women in there. Make sure to read the flirting at the gym guide and put yourself into action. Flirting at the gym is easier than you’ll ever imagine.
2- Classes And Activities You Enjoy.
No matter how busy you are, you’ll always have enough time to do one activity you like. Think about it as a part of your leisure. If you are all stressed from work and like dancing, try going to dancing classes. It will be a bigger relief than staying home watching TV.
In places like that you can meet many new women – many more than you’ll meet at a bar or in a club. And it’s not all about the quantity either – girls you’ll meet in these places will be much more of your type than girls you’ll meet at other places.
3- Try Online Dating.
If you spend twenty minutes (or less, or more) a day in Facebook or other social network, why don’t you add one, two or more girls as friend every day? Send a few messages and try to arrange a date.
Online Dating is one of the best ways to meet a perfect match. With a good profile, solid messaging and a bit of charm you can take out really beautiful girls from there. A few minutes each day will give you a big return.
4- Your Favorite Café or Tavern.
Instead of relaxing, chatting and surfing the web in your house, try going to a café or tavern. You’ll be surrounded by people and more prone to meet someone than if you stay at your place. It doesn’t matter if it’s day or night – it’s always the right time to be there.
Find a comfortable place and make a habit to go. I usually spend one to two hours a day planning my next projects, editing content, writing emails and contacting people. Do I need to be at my office to do that? Definitely not – These don’t require the same amount of focus that the other activities.
So I go to a bar every night, most times by myself, well dressed, laptop in hand an order just a glass of red wine. Sometimes I meet someone, sometimes I don’t. But I’m there – right in the eyes of many new women every day.
Top lawyers, investment bankers and strategic consultants are the ones who are really busy. The rest of the world has plenty of time and chances – you just need to realize it.