Breaking through Comfort

Have you ever been in a place where you feel comfortable in your game?

There was a time that opening made me uncomfortable so I had to push through that or do nothing. Now I feel that I have settled into a groove. Not a bad groove but I feel like the next level is something much more. I think it comes down to a level of intensity.

For the first couple months the level of intesity was high. I didn’t have a clue what I was doing so I was pushing my comfort zone constantly. Now I get one set all night that pushes my comfort zone just becuase the girl is really hot or that she is giving me shit in some new way.

Before it was a constant comfort zone push. Sure I could continue on this path and slowly move onward but I think this complete comfort zone push in the beginning is what helped me get from not being able to approach to being able to get as far as I can now so quickly.

There is only a short amount of time to live. We only get two weekend nights I want to move this faster and build up the momentum that rapidly propelled me and Edge from the beginning.

I feel like the best way to do this is to create new situations that keep me on my toes and working in a new way that I have never done before. I think a good state to be in is one where I don’t know what the fuck to do next. Plain and simple.

Friday night was the first time in the last couple weeks we did something different. I was using Edge’s hot pivot to open sets more the lack of I didn’t know how to open, transition and and keep it going with the pivot. Bam it was great I was opening into qualification and I didn’t know what was going on.

Slowly figuring out this new dynamic thats what I need to do thats what we all need to do. Push it to another level.