We all love women. They are amazing and there’s no way we could live a minute without them. They are the ones that make us happy and to have a big smile every day. Because of that I always found it incredible how can they make so many men really suffer. Instead of enjoying and having pleasure out of something as beautiful as a date or a relationship, many men go through a lot of pain. If you are one of those men, take a look at the following three rules I made up after years of relationships and experience. Applying and believing in this principles will make you enjoy women much more.
1- Never try to understand women
As simple as that – That’s the most important thing you should know. What I mean with this is: don’t waste your time trying to figure out why she did this or that. No way! You just won’t realize why and if, which I hardly believe, you’ll spend so much precious time on something you got nothing to earn from. Still, to my great astonishment, thousands and millions of men may be, in this very moment, thinking “Why did she do this to me?” or “What did I do wrong?” That, I insist, it’s not the right path.
Save yourself of all this mess. Many times not even women themselves know why they act someway. The moment they take control your head, you are absolutely lost. Don’t let them do that to you. It’s like a lose-lose game. By not falling into women’s traps you will become more confident and more attractive to them. They will be the ones on the defensive asking themselves why didn’t you react badly, why you didn’t care. That’s the trick!
Of course, if you got serious problems, don’t just go ignoring her. But it’s not that hard to make a difference between the real and the not real drama. If you are flirting or fooling around, apply this principle and watch the results.
2- Never try to outsmart women
Accepting and assuming women may be much more intelligent than us is a great step. All men should know that when they think all the possibilities, paths or steps a discussion or situation with a woman can take, all these have been already thoroughly analyzed many more times by her.
When men are busy talking and discussing about football or business, women meet up and speak about US. They have this tremendous advantage, which is almost impossible to compete with. Get over this; there’s no point in competing with them here. You have to keep confident, have clear values and don’t fall into any of her games.
3- Your woman is not the exception
Most men, blinded by love, tend to believe that their women –and just theirs- are the sole exception to all the rules. Unfortunately for them, they can’t be more wrong.
Never believe everything a woman says. It’s a step into maturity to assume that if she has to lie to you, she will. It’s safe to believe that, despite being in love with you, one day she may act in a way that could make you feel pain. It doesn’t mean she will, but it’s certain that she could. No one is an angel and she is not the exception. This shouldn’t interfere in your relationship, but yet you must have it very clear.